These days, I rarely update my blogroll because I don't use it. I read blogs via an RSS Feed and never think about my blogroll. It's a low priority. I use my "free" time to answer No Tell submissions, layout magazine and book galleys, rate books on Goodreads, unsuccessfully potty train my son . . .
There's no hierarchy. Just disorganization.
Occasionally people e-mail and ask if I would add a link to their blog. I usually do.
So if you link (or have in the past) to this blog and I haven't returned the favor and you kinda feel like I should, just shoot me an e-mail and I'll happily add you.
Please don't think your blog's non-appearance on this blogroll to mean I think you're a dork or a dweeb. I mean, I might think you're a dork or a dweeb, but that's not a factor in my blogroll. My blogroll is full of dorks and dweebs. Look at it. I do not discriminate against dorks and dweebs. Some of my best friends are dorks and dweebs. In fact, I can't think of the last time I was in a room that wasn't teeming with dorks and dweebs. I'm a dork/dweeb magnet. All the dorks and dweebs wanna get with me.
Also, don't take it to mean that I think your poetry isn't worthy enough. The only poetry I find worth in is my own. Everyone else's is weird.