Speaking on relevancy, there are things one deems relevant and then there's everything else that one doesn't recognize as relevant.
Anyone who believes to know the full picture is deluded.
I sometimes have dreams where the man I'm with (either Chris or one of my many dream-boyfriends, I have a very busy unconscious dance card) tries to give me a key. In every one of these dreams I scoff and say I don't need that silly key. I can climb out the tiny bathroom window instead.